Tuesday, November 25, 2008

What a steal!

I used to be one of those that would constantly check my bank account, credit card balances, and checkbook.  I loved knowing how much money I had and when my bills were due.  I relished writing checks to pay off my debts knowing that I was in complete control.  I like to call that period of time "fantasy."  I now live in reality.  Reality looks much different than fantasy mainly because I am now an adult with real responsibilities and really empty bank accounts.  Needless to say, I DO NOT check my bank account, credit cards, and checkbook?  What's that?

Joel and I have been on a strict budget this semester as we realized early on that one person's student loans were not meant to cover two people's living expenses.  Some how we're making it work but we definitely live a leaner life style.  It had been a few weeks since I had monitored our accounts so I thought it about time.  I signed on to Discover expecting a moderately low balance (definitely under $1000) only to find a balance of $2500.  Ok.  Maybe our payment from last month had not gone through (last month was unfortunate.  Vanessa decided to act up and in her rebellion caused us $700 worth of new brakes).  But, alas, it had.  So I checked our recent activity and began to get suspicious when I noticed that I had spent $300 at Macy's in Houston, $300 at Chevron in some other God-forsaken town in Texas and $40 at Fiesta Mart.  But, I knew for certain these were not our charges when I saw the next several charges - Walmart.  What a steal!

In all the hubbub with Discover I failed to act upon the fact that several of our (crucial) monthly  bills were charged to our now closed Discover account.  One of those, internet, would literally cripple us if it were to disappear.  True to form, within a few days I had a friendly reminder email telling me to pay up or chance losing our lifeblood.  I promptly called Verizon to pay our bill vis a vis Mastercard.  While on the phone with the lovely operator from Washington, she mentioned a special deal that I might be interested in (yea right, lady).  I politely informed her that we were already stretched thin and could not afford a more expensive service.  That's when she politely informed me that I'm an idiot and would I just shut up and listen to what she had to offer.  I did.  And, as it turns out what she offered was faster internet at a cheaper price than what we pay now!  What a steal!

Saturday, November 22, 2008

311.6

Because I'm just that good.

http://n.ethz.ch/student/mkos/pinguin.swf


Saturday.

This is my favorite day out of the whole week...I know, surprise right?  We generally don't have much planned on Saturday mornings (which is mostly intentional as I do not like to get up early any day of the week but this seems especially heinous to me on Saturdays).  One of my favorite things to do is lay in bed next to Joel and listen to This American Life.  If you have never heard this incredible program, then do yourselves a favor and click on the provided link and listen to one of the archived shows.  I think its my favorite thing on the radio (gasp!  I even like it more than NPR and Morning Becomes Eclectic).

Today, Ira brought us a show about music and it was highly entertaining - you know its good when David Sedaris sings jingles in Billy Holiday's voice.  Joel and I were still attempting to wake up when the radio turned on at 10am.  Even though we were half asleep, every once in awhile one of us would writhe in laughter.

After the show we crawled out of bed and made our Saturday morning breakfast - oatmeal and coffee.  We kept the radio on and listened to Good Food and then transitioned into some great music.  This day would have been perfect if not for this...

Oh how I hate homework.  This red book ruined a perfectly good Saturday morning.  If it weren't for the fact that my first final is two weeks from Monday, my first paper is due a week from Wednesday, another paper is due the first day of finals and we will be in New Hampshire for Thanksgiving...If it wasn't for all this, I would tell this red book to shove it.

What can you do?

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Addiction?

I think so.





Sunday, November 16, 2008

Turns out I'm not part cat

There happen to be many fires raging around LA (which I knew about) but what I failed to remember is that fire produces smoke, which carries ash, which then scorches throats of those dense enough to run when ash is raining down around them, which then creates a puking Amanda.  

So exercise is not bad for my health - breathing is, and since the two are not mutually exclusive looks like I'll have to take a hiatus (I know, another one!) from my exercise routine until these fires clear themselves.  In the meantime I will gorge myself on lasagna and brownies until I can't see my feet.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Is exercise really good for the health?

Lately I've noticed my thighs rub together more often and my belly fat jiggles like Santa Claus' robust abdomen.  I'm assuming this is not terribly attractive to my poor husband and I can't help but admit that my jeans have been a bit more snug these past few weeks (I like to think this is because Joel dries my jeans in the dryer, but I have a sneaking suspicion its more because of the mass amounts of cookies and ice cream we have been eating lately).

This is no way to live so I emphatically turned to exercising.  By emphatically I mean the first work I ran twice, the second week I ran once and this week, well lets just say that today was my first rendezvous with exercise.  I did my usual half walk half run from Washington to Idaho and from 16th to 20th and then back again.  All in all I would say this is four city blocks.  I know, marathon next week, right?

Well today was particularly eventful.  As I was cruising along Washington - the last leg of my trip - I started getting this really intense itch in my throat.  Actually, it started from the beginning but I thought it was just air passing along my throat.  Turns out it was a bit more than air and as I neared home I started coughing.  The coughing quickly became more intense and as I stepped inside the apartment I noticed breakfast was revisiting me.  I hardly made it to the toilet before I started upchucking my oatmeal and...cat hair?

I'm pretty sure I just had my first hairball.  I know they say people and their pets start to look like one another as time goes by, but hairballs?!?  Is this really necessary?  It took me a good full five minutes to finally stop coughing and wheezing.  If this is what Chachi goes through (and I think it might be since his hacking always ends in throw up) then thank God I am not a cat...because that was a horrible experience.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

I'd kill myself if we did this more often

Joel and I were *slightly* obsessed with this year's Presidential election.  Chances were pretty great that if we weren't at school or work we could be found on our computers ravaging the world wide web for anything election.  We got much of our fix from the Huffington Post and would constantly ask each other, "did you see the headline on HuffPo?" or "can you believe she said that?"

Needless to say we were a bit more than thrilled to see November 4 come and go so that we could return to our normal everyday lives.  I made the unfortunate decision to write an article about election reform so looks like I'll be even deeper in this mess for the next several months. 

Though I probably read every article out there, watched all the clips, and listened to all the radio shows, I found this one particular article from Newsweek especially riveting.  Its a long one so I read it over the last week or so but I find myself even more in love with the election now than I was before.  I debated if I should post about the article, but I feel strongly about this topic and thought this article presented a balanced and gritty view of the election.  Maybe its not and I've been eating too many cookies this week, but at the very least I will give you all the opportunity to decide for yourselves.  So here it is...snippets from the seven part series.


In November 2006, Craig sat next to George Stevens, an old friend of the Robert Kennedy clan, at another Obama speech. Stevens leaned over to Craig and said, "What do you think of this guy for president? I haven't heard anybody like this since Bobby Kennedy." Craig instantly replied, "Sign me up." Stevens and Craig approached Obama coming out of the speech and asked, "What are you doing in 2008?" Obama gave them a big grin and said, "Oh, man, it wasn't that good." But before long Craig and Stevens were raising money for Obama's political-action committee, the Hope Fund. Obama was amused by the devotion of the two old Kennedy hands. After a while, every time he saw the two men he would say, "Here come the Kool-Aid boys."


The campaign continued its rickety path through the fall. At one point, Mark McKinnon, a media adviser who had worked for Bush-Cheney '04, described the difference between the Bush campaigns he had worked on and the McCain campaign as the difference between the Royal British Navy and Capt. Jack Sparrow's ship in "Pirates of the Caribbean." McCain loved the comparison. He began making guttural pirate noises, punctuating his jokes and one-liners with "Aaarrgh" and occasionally greeting reporters with this oddly cheerful growl. PIRATES FOR MCCAIN T shirts (complete with skull and crossbones) eventually sprouted on the backs of campaign volunteers and even a few reporters. The Straight Talk Express revived; network producers began napping on the bus and watching TV in McCain's seating area when the candidate was busy.


She was determined to campaign to the last, hoping against hope that the superdelegates would come around to her argument that Obama was unelectable. This was not an argument that he wanted to get caught up in. From the headquarters of the "No-Drama Obama" campaign the word went out: do not engage, do not inflame, do not say or do anything that might suggest Clinton did not have the right to finish the campaign. On one conference call, someone said, "We've just got to keep biting our lips, biting our lips." Adman Jim Margolis piped up, "OK, but my lip is starting to hurt."


Schmidt resented being called a disciple of Rove by the press. He did not regard himself as a fearmonger or a practitioner of the dark arts, and indeed he had a sweet, playful side. He told funny stories about being scared of snakes at his California home, and he desperately missed his wife, son and daughter, with whom he had memorized the songs from the Disney fairy-tale movie "Enchanted." After he had been portrayed as a calculating political-machine man in the 2004 NEWSWEEK special election issue, a crestfallen Schmidt asked his friend Nicolle Wallace, Bush's communications director, "Is that really how people see me? The big, bald, mean guy?" Schmidt could be mock-tough. "I'm OK with a reign of terror starting now," he sternly told Salter when the campaign's logistical incompetence was becoming all too apparent to the press late in the spring of 2008. Then he turned to a NEWSWEEK reporter and choked up with laughter. But he could also be severe and grimly focused. Whenever McCain had a rough day in the press, or Schmidt was running on a few hours' sleep after a late night at the bar with Salter, he would declare, throughout the day, "Fun Steve is dead."


The Palin pick had the feel of a guerrilla raid, a covert operation. Salter, Schmidt and Governor Palin had checked in to the hotel under false names, pretending they were in town for a family reunion. The pirate ship was back! Muzzled and ordered to behave like a regular politician (run negative ads, avoid reporters, just read from the damn teleprompter), McCain had rebelled in his way by picking a fellow subversive—a sassy, shoot-from-the-hip, self-styled hockey mom who had shown those Big Oil boys a thing or two up in Alaska. It was romantic but also a bit impulsive.


As usual with the McCain campaign, Joe the Plumber had more to do with impulse than planning. As Lindsey Graham told the story, he had been awakened at 4:30 on the morning of the final debate. It was McCain on the phone. "I can't sleep," said the candidate. "Well, now neither can I," said a sleepy Graham. He stumbled on down to McCain's hotel room. McCain was vibrating with nervous energy, rehearsing his lines on his least favorite subject, the economy. He was racing through a section on taxes, not really paying attention to the words, and said, "Obama will raise taxes, raise taxes on ordinary folks like Joe the Plumber." Graham perked up, as did Cindy, who was sitting there patiently with her agitated husband. "John, what was that you just said?" Cindy asked. "About the plumber?" Lindsey added. The three spent the rest of the session talking about how to work him into the debate.


In a sea of Americans in Grant Park in Chicago at midnight, Obama said, "It has been a long time coming, but tonight, because of what we did on this day, in this election, at this defining moment, change has come to America." Yes, it has.

Monday, November 10, 2008

Un-Celebration Coffee

Have you ever felt like something that someone told you was a punch in the stomach?  The only response you can muster up is a doubled-over groan in protest?  

This morning as I was happily sipping away at my Celebration coffee (that's the name Whole Foods gave this blend; yesterday I agreed with the name.  Today...), I had such a moment.  Joel and I were listening to our favorite radio station, KCRW, much like we do every morning yet this morning Nic Harcourt announced his resignation.  What?!?  Now who will bring us eclectic music Monday - Friday, 9am-12pm?  Its because of Nic that my music vocab is so broad and ingenious.  

Nic, we're sorry to hear of your resignation and we may even need to schedule a KCRW boycott in protest.  Maybe next Tuesday at 11pm?  I hear the music then isn't very good and we won't be missing the news.  Yes, that sounds like a good time to lodge our disdain at this very upsetting decision.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Yes We Can

Today our country decided...and that decision was for progress, for an end to a racist chapter of history, for a future that embraces all colors and all types.

I have never been more proud to be an American 
than I am today.  Our first African American President.  So many thought they would never see this day - especially because it was only 50 or so years ago that African Americans were allowed in the front of the bus - yet today we are able to celebrate a new chapter in our nation's history.  One where the color of our skin, our gender, nor the place of our birth matters.  

Congratulations, President-Elect Obama.  

Saturday, October 25, 2008

A Disneyland-like High

Last weekend my best friend Rachel was in town.  Her husband, Ron, had some business to finish up (they moved to Washington this past July) so Rachel decided to accompany him since flights were so ridiculously cheap.

We had such a great time and it just makes me miss her more and wish they would move back.  Trust me, Wenatchee Washington holds nothing on California.  On Friday we hung out at the apartment and by special request from Rachel we had In-n-Out for lunch.  She's not the first Californian that has requested In-n-Out upon return - I know that I never have and probably never will.  I think their food is good but I'm not goo-goo over it and never have been.  Although they do have good shakes...

On Saturday her sister and sister's boyfriend drove from San Diego to visit with Rachel (and I like to think with me too).  I've known Krista forever and think fondly of her, as I do of Rachel.  We had a wonderful visiting with them mainly because they satiated my huge appetite for games and indulged me in several of my favorites.  We also walked to our local Thai place (Toi Thai on Wilshire) and had an outstanding meal!  I think they are starting to recognize me and Joel cause the waitress (who is my favorite) brought us mango sticky rice....and yes, it was on the house!

On Sunday Rachel and I drove to Riverside (man that is a far drive from SM) to a Chicago Bears bar where we met up with Ron and watched the Bears game (they are a football team for all you non-sporters out there.  Before Ron I had no idea Chicago had a football team.)  Its amazing how excited grown men get over touchdowns.  These guys gather almost every week at the bar to watch the games...they have definitely formed a community and it was a privilege to be a part of this community that Sunday morning.

After the game Rachel and I went for pedicures.  She is getting bigger now (no, not because of the In-n-Out cheeseburgers, but because of a very unfortunate growth in her stomach.  It seems that Rachel is almost 6 months pregnant.  Its definitely a trip seeing your best friend - of God-knows how many years - pregnant!).  We finished off the trip at church and then said our teary goodbyes.  

Now I am completely unmotivated at school and am hoping some burst of inspiration comes my way this weekend.

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Follow Me

Come on....be my follower!!!!

On the left-hand side of my blog there's a place to be my follower.  Do it....I promise, it will be fun and rewarding!

Goodbye Legos, Hello Internet!

***UPDATE***
I've been asked what the bad news was...well, it was how much he would be paid at this new dream job.  Lets just say that he would probably be better off at Starbucks or In-n-Out.  However, he has just completed his first week and LOVED it!  The guys he works with have already given him greater responsibility and he comes home beaming on a nightly basis.  I couldn't be happier despite the fact that we may still be on the streets next week - or at least Chachi will be.

****

A few weeks ago I mentioned Joel got a job teaching Legos and how wonderful this was.  Seems this was only wonderful in my book and while I may have wanted to spend my days playing with Legos, Joel certainly did not.  So he continued the job search.

Last Friday he had an interview with a company that posts how-to videos (much like YouTube).  The interview went perfectly and we were on top of the world cause we knew that Joel hands down blew them away.  Everything was perfect - Joel would be working in the marketing division of a venture capitalist techie company; they used macs; Joel would be required to spend mass amounts of time on the internet; he got along great with the guys there; he would work part-time until he finished up school and then they would bring him on full-time; and the place is a few miles from home.  He was told that they would get back to him that night.  We waited.

Each day Joel became a bit more depressed about the situation.  I tried the pep-talk, the well if you don't get this I will still love you talk, the you're perfect for the job and it must just be extraneous circumstances keeping them from calling you.  Everyday I would rush out to my car after class and frantically check my phone to see if Joel had called with the good news.  But everyday my little phone returned nothing.

I gave Joel permission to take the week off from job-hunting so that he could focus on school (and more importantly not focus on jobs).  We prayed and prayed and knew that if this was what God wanted then it would happen.  But surely it was because the job was so perfect!

And then it came.  No, not the text message on my phone.  I came home tonight and decided that if they had called then Joel would tell me.  So I refrained from asking, but I didn't have to because when I got home Joel told me had good news and bad news.  I knew right then - they had called and he had the job.  To say that I screamed and jumped up and down would be a slight understatement.  Periodically I would scream out loud and grab him by the neck in a I can't believe you're doing the job of your dreams kind of way.

He starts next Tuesday and I can't wait to hear how the first day goes.

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Microwaves and Toasters

At the age of three I was cooking eggs in the microwave.  I would stare at the rotating bowl and couldn't wait until the eggs boiled up so high that they almost flowed over the bowl's lip.  I remember my mom telling me not to stare into the microwave - that it was bad for my eyes or my brain or something...I can't remember!

I remember loving the microwave so much that if it could fit inside the microwave then I would most certainly use the microwave.  I lived on campus my first year at Pepperdine.  They provided all the furniture for us - except for a microwave.  No microwave!  I mean, was this the 17th centurty?  Was I not at a school where 18 year olds drive ferraris?  One of the first things we did was buy a microwave, because, come-on...you have to have a microwave!

When I moved into our current apartment I was so mesmerized by the size, wooden floors and pink & blue bathroom that I failed to notice the kitchen had only one - ONE - outlet and this outlet was (in)conveniently located by the smallest part of the counter.  Ugh.  This didn't register disaster to me until I thought about my precious microwave.  There was no way I could have that and a toaster and a blender and well, anything that requires electricity.  What was I to do?  We chose the toaster.

And boy am I glad we did!  Very few times have I uttered the words, "I need a MICROWAAAAAVE!"  For the most part we are able to use the stove and the ever so amazing toaster.  I mean, its amazing what you can do with a toaster.  And, when I watch the food cook and bubble over the lip of the baking sheet, I don't get the waves shrinking what's left of my microwaved brain!

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Throwing Caution to the Wind

Joel and I have been penny pinching lately since neither of us are gainfully employed (we each have odd jobs...I'm a research assistant for one of my all time favorite law professors and Joel is a lego instructor).  We've been eating in and shopping less.  We even make fewer trips to Orange.  I think we've morphed into old people since we tend to say things like "Man it's getting late" when really its only 9:30.  Our computers have become appendages and we envision how to conquer our favorite video games when we should be sleeping.

But sometimes - like tonight - we throw caution to the wind, extricate ourselves from our faithful Macs, and wind up in some store or some bar.  Tonight we drove the 1.2 miles to 3rd street promenade and enjoyed some guilt free shopping at the Gap (I have $100 in gift certificates as a 'thank you' for spending money on my credit cards) and then some drinks and mini sliders at Yankee Doodles.  It was such a wonderful night.  Everytime we do something like this we remark about how necessary a date night is and how much we enjoy it.  But then we find ourselves holed up in the apartment with Chachi as our only outlet until we go stir crazy (much like tonight) and wander back out into the real world where three dimensional people have fun and don't say things like "I powned that video game!"

Saturday, October 11, 2008

I am in love with iTunes genius feature.  First, if there is a song you particularly like just click on the song then click on the genius icon and voila!  iTunes makes an entire playlist of songs that mesh well with the song you chose!  Also, it suggests other songs that would go well with your library that are not currently in your library.  And, other songs of that particular artist that are not in your library.  Ahhh....this makes it so much easier to get cool music.

Yea for iTunes!!  Hopefully it will still be around after this whole ordeal with the music industry goes down...

Widgets

Today I discovered the power of widgets.  Now, this may just be a ploy to avoid the mountains of books that I have to read and the dozens of papers I have to write.  But I like to think of it as "taking care of business" because if this law thing doesn't work out I am definitely going to become one of those mommy bloggers that make all their money writing on their blogs while never having to remove their pajamas from their very happy bodies.

If you start to see ads pop up on this thing - you'll know what happened.

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

God Grew Tired of Us

In 1987, Sudan's Muslim government pronounced death to all males in the Christian south: 27,000 boys fled to Ethiopia on foot. In 1991, they were forced to flee to Kenya; 12,000 survived to live in a U.N. camp in Kakuma. Archival footage documents the 1,000 mile flight; we see life in the camp. We follow three young men who repatriate to the U.S. John Bul Dau goes to Syracuse, and by the film's end, becomes a spokesperson for the Lost Boys and Lost Girls of Sudan; Daniel Abol Pach and Panther Bior go to Pittsburgh. All work several jobs, send money back to the camp, search for relatives lost in the civil war, acclimatize to the U.S., seek an education, and miss their homeland.


The only thing Joel and I could do after watching this incredibly heart-wrenching movie was embrace and allow the tears to flow.  Its amazing how resilient the human spirit is and yet how delicate in all the same passage.  One of the boys that came to America ended up losing his mind and had to be committed into a mental institution.  I realize that people endure un-Godly hardship and survive.  Yet not without a price.

If you can, rent this movie and allow their stories to become a piece of your story.


(pictures and caption from imdb).

Saturday, October 4, 2008

She's so great it kills me

A recent article noted Tina Fey's comedic ability in capturing Sarah Palin (on a side note, the article had nothing to do with Tina Fey's impression.  The author started out talking about Palin's performance at the debate and ended in this excerpt.  I personally do not see the connection, but I appreciated the author's viewpoint on Tina Fey). Here is the excerpt:

We must take happiness where we can. Tina Fey's Sarah Palin has become, in that old phrase, a national sensation, and Ms. Fey is becoming, with her show "30 Rock," and now the Palin impression, one of the great comic figures of her generation. Her work with Amy Poehler (as Katie Couric) in last weekend's spoof on "Saturday Night Live" was so astoundingly good—the hand gestures, the vocal tone and spirit—that it captured some of the actual heart of the Palin story. Ms. Poehler as Couric: "Mrs. Palin, are you aware that when cornered you become increasingly adorable?" Ms. Fey as Palin mugs, adorably.

To spoof someone well takes talent, but to utterly nail a political figure while not brutalizing him takes a real gift, and amounts almost to a public service. After all, to capture someone is a kind of tribute: it concedes he is real, vivid, worthy of note. We are not as a nation manufacturing trust all that well, or competence, or leadership. But some things we do well, and one is comedy. Ms. Fey plays characters who are sour, stressed and who, on "30 Rock," live in a world that is cynical, provisional and shallow. But to observe life so closely takes a kind of love.


Joel and I are huge fans of 30 Rock and Tina Fey. Her renditions of Sarah Palin are priceless and like this article notes, she nails them.

If there was an award for the best wife in 2008, I would totally be in the running.  Today I made a great dinner for my husband, followed by homemade snickerdoodles, and he may just get lucky tonight.

Of course, this award would not take into account the countless hours I lounge around on the couch playing around on the internet.  Nor would it base its opinion on my cleaning skills and general household abilities.  Because, if that was the case I would definitely not be in the running.  Not even a little bit.

But you see, this is why I married Joel because he LIKES doing the dishes - it relaxes him!  (I know, crazy talk right?  But he told me this today while we were washing the dishes and he was cringing at the dirty water I was using to clean the pots and pans.  I could tell he was resisting rewashing them with all his might.  I know this because he told me the other morning he had to remove a dried up onion piece from his coffee mug.  Nevertheless...I made dinner!  DINNER!  I deserve the award and if you ask Joel he would agree)  He also likes cleaning the bathtub, running the Scooba (aka mopping the floor), doing the laundry, and tidying up.  So you see, there is never anything left for me to do.  Hence my lounging around.

Trust me...our system works very well and in the meantime I occasionally don my apron and whip up a delicious meal using almost every dish in the house only to leave a tornado of dirtiness in the kitchen that Joel then later quietly and dutifully puts back together.

He's so wonderful!

Thursday, October 2, 2008

Dear Winter,

Where are you?  Its October and time to break out the scarves and jackets.  Instead you are forcing me to wear shorts and tank tops.  Its too hot!  Bring your refreshing rains and comforting cloud cover.  I'm ready to pack away my swim suit and bust out the space heater.  And, if you come real soon I promise to not complain too much when your blustery winds bite my nose and cool temperatures nip at my toes.

Love,
Amanda