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i pride myself on being a calm bride.  in the beginning i swore up and down that i would NOT be a bridezilla and i think i've done a pretty good job on fulfilling that swear.  i think the reason i can remain calm as our wedding day so slowly approaches is because i have delegated all the work to others.  i let them get stressed out instead of me.  i must admit this is quite brilliant.

that's not to say i haven't had my moments.  i distinctly remember sleepless nights where i worried about what kind of butter we would have - pats or balls - and who would pick the butter up and make sure it gets to the place on time.  sleepless nights filled with nightmares about the potluck falling apart or my bridesmaids and photographer not showing up.  but overall i pat myself on the back for keeping a calm and collected appearance.

but the system is starting to fall apart.  i recently delegated the music to two friends that i asked to play during the ceremony.  congratulating myself on a job well-done i sat down on my comfy couch to watch yet another movie (i'm incredibly bored right now) when i found out from my friends that I need to make these musical decisions.  WHAT?!?  i can't make decisions...they are the ones that are supposed to decide what song i walk down the aisle to.

and you know what?  there are like a gagillion songs out there and even more websites telling me what songs i should choose for these special moments.  ahhhh!!!  see, this is what i have been trying to avoid these past 12 months.  now, a week and a half away - some would say i was home free - i am suddenly stuck with an inordinantly huge decision and i have no idea what to choose.  

so....any suggestions?